10 Excuses Of Men When They Want To Break Up
The love that you think is forever broken, everyone is sad, heartbroken, disappointed and angry? Girls often expect to receive sincere and frank explanations from their lovers. However, many men fail to do that.
They may want you to suffer, want to protect you, protect themselves, or they are confused and don’t even understand themselves. Here’s the truth behind 10 Excuses Of Men When They Want To Break Up.
1. “The problem is not in you, it is in me”
This sentence may be said to reduce the pain for the girl, but it is actually to make the man feel less guilty.
The real meaning here is: “We don’t match, you don’t really match with me”. Or even more difficult to say is “I don’t like you anymore”.
2. “We have different orientations in life”
Ashley Marie, a relationship analysis and solutions expert, asserts that for people who have been together for a long time, maybe even a few years, these words are meaningless. Their purpose is to mask the thought: “I don’t see how your dreams match up with my future, and I don’t want to put in the effort or try to see if they do.” This person is quite weak and childish. You don’t have to waste any more time orienting yourself with him.
3. “You’re TOO Mature For Me”
This is also an expression of selfishness and childishness. Men blame your “maturity” for wanting to look polite instead of admitting that they just want to hang out with girls and not need a serious relationship. If you receive a text like this, believe it immediately and say goodbye to him.
4. “I don’t want you to get hurt”
This is a common breakup phrase for both men and women. There will be some truth in the above explanation. If he really loves you, he will take care of your feelings and thoughts. However, the truth is still the truth. Maybe he’s trying to get to know someone or for some other reason that’s sure to hurt you. Life is not like a melodrama and explanations like these are truly too touching and lofty to be true.
5. “I’m going away in the next few years. I don’t want to date you anymore, I don’t want you to wait.”
This is a very obvious fallacy that helps mask the fact that he’s no longer interested in hanging out with you for long. Maybe he has other plans for his future without your presence or wants a different single life or relationship. Whatever the reason, the fact remains that he no longer wants to spend time with you.
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6. “I Can’t Stay With You Anymore”
Have you ever caught your man flirting, dating, or sleeping with another girl? And usually, you will get a short answer like this. At that time, one is that they no longer have feelings for you to the point of being lazy to give an explanation. Two is not brave enough to confess to you what happened in the past. Forgiveness is possible, but only for the man who makes an effort to hold you back and wants to change.
7. “I still can’t get over my ex, and this isn’t fair to you.”
The truth behind is “I don’t like you enough”. Hanging out with your ex will never be a relationship problem if he loves you very much.
8. “I thought I was ready for a relationship but…”
This means he has jumped into a relationship with you but doesn’t have any responsibility or commitment for you at all. The expert explained that what this guy really wants is to just have fun, have the opportunity to hang out with other girls. It doesn’t matter if he’s ready or not, he’d simply rather be single than hold your hand.
9. “You are so good and I only make your life worse.”
This is also a way for a man to feel less guilty and you can’t blame him too much. However, doing so will still hurt you less, because at least he still wants you to see yourself as a great girl.
10. “We give each other some alone time.”
This doesn’t mean he’s trying to get out of the relationship with you. This man may be overwhelmed with attachments to you because he has never had to with anyone before. Time apart for him to balance his emotions, life, think about the future, re-analyze the relationship… Worse case is that he is having a crush on someone, and needs to stop with you to respect you and consider his feelings. Be calm, be quiet and wait for the results. If he really loves you, he will definitely come back. And if you betray you, then be optimistic and believe that you are lucky not to have gone too far in your relationship with this person.
Whether it’s a fallacy or a fact, that person already wants to break up. Holding on or not is your decision because only the insider understands the other person and what happens in the relationship of both. However, if you’re so tired of him just thinking about leaving, don’t regret the past.
