How people treat you or what they say about you? You can’t change how people treat you or what they say about you. All you can do is change how you react to it.
How people treat us is directly correlated with how we feel about ourselves. We set the tone with the relationship with ourselves first and others learn how to treat us from there.
You teach people how to dealing with you.
“Treat people how you want to be treated instead of how they treat you.”- Kristin Michelle Elizabeth
“Everything you do to other people affects them, and how you do that affects them.” Carolyn Mackler
“Manners are just a formal expression of how you treat people.” – Molly Ivins
“Most unhappy people need to learn just one lesson: how to see themselves through the lens of genuine compassion, and treat themselves accordingly.” – Martha Beck
“Start each day asking, “How do I want others to feel?” Then act accordingly. Xo” – Jill Telford
Remember the old adage, and “treat yourself.”
We are not at peace when we do not care for ourselves, when we do not love ourselves, the same thing occurs. When you take care of yourself, you’re a better person for others. When you feel good about yourself, you do others better.
“If you respect yourself, you will respect others.” – Lailah Gifty Akita
“Do right. Do your best. Treat others as you want to be treated.” – Lou Holtz
“I teach people how to treat me by what I will allow.” – Stephen Covey
“It’s not your fault how they choose to behave towards you. But it’s your fault when you let it continue.” – Marion Bekoe
“You must recognize that we train the people in our lives how to treat us.” – Marshall Sylver
How we deal with people is always our choice, and if we choose not to be respectful, it can come back to bite us. You can change how people so something with you though you are the only one how you want to be treated. As for what people say about you, why care. That’s theirs, not yours. Treat everyone with respect and kindness without any expectation.